Wednesday, March 9, 2011

The Homecoming Scoop!

It's crazy how my productivity skyrocketed with Nick's arrival time in mind.  Emmy and I were up with the sun on Thursday, March 3rd.  It's almost like she knew how momentous the day would be.  Either that, or she had a fever and felt like crud.  Crud aside, she rallied big time.  Decked out in our jammies, we hit the grocery store with the early birds to stock our fridge with Nick's favorites: hummus and pita chips, sandwich fixin's, guac and chips, and not to forget the Purple Haze and Blue Moon beer.  Emmy enjoyed her very first donut as a treat for her perfect (sick) behavior!

We filled up the air in Nick's tires and topped off the tank of gas before heading home to clean house and decorate.  It was all going way too smoothly; I should've known my rotten luck would insert itself somehow.

As I was making bread, my Kitchen Aid shimmied its way off the counter to obliterate Molly and Darla's water bowl (PRAISE JESUS that Emmy was no where near!)  Later, as I stepped into the shower, after frantically cleaning the whole house, the shower head broke.  Of course, that's the only part of the house that Nick would appreciate to be clean and functioning when he arrived home.  Wearing not much more than soap suds, I made a mad dash around the house to gather tools in an attempt to make a quick repair.  Much to my chagrin, that was not in the cards and neither was a relaxing shower.  So, I showered, with an intense stream of water spouting out of the wall, to then throw myself together, before waking up a feverish Emmy to get ready to go.  To exacerbate my time crunch further, I needed to come up with a quick home remedy for an unfortunate self waxing mishap (I will refrain from any more detail as that already teeters on the brink of too much).  Nothing, NOTHING, ever goes as smoothly as it does in my head.  God's sense of humor with me is boundless.

Emmy and I came screeching into the nearby gas station where we were 15 minutes late to connect up with Thomas, a producer with The Documentary Group in New York.  His company was hired by the  history department at West Point and the Class of '67 to create a film on the changing times of the military centered on the members for that particular graduating class.  They have interviewed Nick's dad (a '67 grad) and will interview Nick in the coming weeks.  They were interested in having footage of Nick's homecoming to show during the interview portion of the film.  Who am I to tell a documentarian not to document our homecoming!?!?  Nerves aside, I was more than happy to oblige; especially after I had dropped some dough at TJ Maxx on a more becoming homecoming outfit.  With 22 hours lead time, Thomas traveled from the Big Apple to meet me at the exit 1 Shell station in time to get to post for Nick's plane to land.  The fact that it worked so seamlessly was truly an act of God!  

It was the most glorious day, sunny and nearly 70 degrees.  Other homecoming ceremonies took place in freezing temperatures, torrential downpours and thunderstorms; but ours was perfect.  I joked with some of the other family members that it was probably the first thing that had gone right with this deployment.  I hoped that was an indication of what's to come (although that thought was fleeting...:-P)

It was not long before the plane touched down on American soil.  Thank you LORD!

Our soldiers emerged from the plane, one by one, carrying their heavy loads and scary-looking weapons.  With hearts racing, we all squinted to see our soldiers in the distance. 

Then we saw them.  It took me a few tries to project my voice loudly and clearly enough to grab Nick's attention.  Finally, he saw us.  The smile on his face was the biggest and brightest I think I've ever seen.  If I could have seen my own face, I would probably say the same for me.

The surge of relief and elation is indescribable.  I now understand that there's no way to know that level of joy without hitting rock bottom first.

After the families reconvened inside, the hangar doors opened to reveal the formation of our returning soldiers.  The army sure does know how to give a girl goosebumps!  After a brief ceremony, the soldiers were dismissed for 15 minutes of family time.  True to form, it took me three or so minutes of that time, with Thomas hot on my trail, to find Nick.  But that didn't matter, because we tracked him down, and I have known few moments as sweet as when I found myself back in his arms, for good.

We spent our brief time talking with other soldiers who came by to welcome Nick home and exchanged introductions and hugs with two of the families of our fallen.  A very bittersweet but important time, for sure.  All too soon, we were called on to return to our seats, as the soldiers returned to formation to then complete their initial reintegration work.  About an hour and a half later, Thomas, Emmy and I met Nick and his bags at the secondary hangar where he was finally free to come home!

We loaded the car and bid farewell to Thomas.  Nick called his family for the first time since his boots hit the ground; and then we were finally able to relax and speak about whatever came to mind first, without a shaky internet connection or a phone line threatening to cut us off.  Nick's plane had several stops before arriving home: Kyrgyzstan, Romania, Germany, Iceland, and Canada. My husband has seen no shortage of obstacles in the last year, it would be appropriate that his route home be equally as complicated.

My streak of bad luck picked back up when we got home, with my phone (temporarily) dying, a bout of traveler's stomach discomfort and a deranged bird flying into our house.  Albeit annoying, it was less so having my better half there to laugh with me about it.  I now know that together, with God, nothing can knock us down.  NOTHING.

Friday, March 4, 2011

Welcome Home Daddy!!

I am saving a thorough blog post indulging all of the details of homecoming day for one of Nick's later reintegration mornings...But I would like a share the fruits of my labor from today's morning briefing.  I am sure that Thomas, my new friend from The Documentary Group in New York, who joined me for the celebration, would scoff at this little film, but I can't stop reliving the sheer joy that pulsed through my veins, no matter how "Blair Witch" it appears...
** I must give credit where it's due!  The photos are courtesy of Paige Kimball Photography, Stacy Coombs Photography and Team Williams who rocked my camera for the day! :)**

Just Three Words...

HOME AT LAST!



Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Just Three Words...

GOT THE CALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Hello. 

This is CPT Matt Hodges your 6-101 Rear Detachment Commander. 

This message is to inform you that your Soldier has departed Afghanistan and is currently on their final movement back to Fort Campbell, Kentucky. 

Your Soldier's Welcome Home Mission Ceremony Number is: 92135. 

Any family and friends wishing to attend the Welcome Home Ceremony for this flight should utilize Gate 7 for entry into Fort Campbell. You can check for the most updated detail concerning your Soldier's arrival time and the Welcome Home Ceremony information by visiting the Fort Campbell website at www.campbell.army.mil and by clicking the link "Welcome Home Ceremony" or you may contact the Brigade Rear Detachment at 270-956-3481. 

Your Soldier's flight information will be referenced on the Fort Campbell website by their specific Mission Ceremony Number. This website is kept current with the latest information and is updated with any Welcome Home Ceremony time chan ges.

Again that website is: www.campbell.army.mil and your Soldiers Mission Ceremony Number is: 92135

Thank you for your continued support to the 101st Combat Aviation Brigade.

Air Assault!



HE LANDS AT 1630 TOMORROW AFTERNOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Monday, February 28, 2011

Bittersweet Reunions

There is no more joyous place than in a military hangar during a homecoming celebration.  The energy is electrifying, the cheers are deafening and the relief is palpable. Emmy and I have had the great privilege of attending five in the last three weeks.  We have run around sharing welcome home hugs with our soldiers and offering congratulations to our families; all of whom have overcome seemingly insurmountable challenges to see this moment.

I wish I could say that every reunion evokes the same feelings of elation, but that just hasn't been the case.  Given the fact that our company has seen more tragedy than any other aviation unit in the entire army this past year, we are bracing ourselves for the grief that is to come.

One of our soldiers arrived home to no one.  While the other soldiers embraced their loved ones, this soldier went outside to smoke.  Moments before, he had marched through the hangar doors to first lay eyes on Tiffany Wagstaff.  The last time he saw her was with his own wife at his side the day he deployed with her husband.  Since that day, his wife left him and Tiffany's husband was killed in a tragic helicopter accident.  The emotions were enough to bring a strong man to cry woefully in a stranger's arms.

That particular soldier isn't the only one stricken by grief upon returning to the states.  I received a hysterical call from a fiance yesterday who was terribly worried about her own soldier.  44 hours after arriving home, the switch flipped and he wanted nothing more than to get away from she and his family.  He is only now mourning the loss of Dave Senft, his only friend in the company.  While he is consumed by feelings about Dave's death, he refuses to talk to anyone for fear that any show of weakness would jeopardize his military career.  Thank the Lord that she reached out to get him the support he needs.

Our soldiers have not grieved the loss of their fallen comrades yet.  In the name of war, they were expected to carry on with the mission a mere day after tragedy struck.  I have been told that it is imperative that it be that way, so that the soldiers don't have an opportunity to fall to a dark place in the midst of deployment.  Inevitably, the feelings will come.  We just need to be ready for when they do.

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Five down, ONE TO GO!!!

The "Transfer of Authority Ceremony" was completed two days ago, making it official that our Lancers' work is finished in Afghanistan!!!  Emmy and I have had the great honor of welcoming home the past five flights of Lancers over the last few weeks!  We have just one flight left on the schedule, and it will be the very best one, because it will bring my Nick home to us!!!  Barring any delays, it appears that Thursday is the day!!!  Here are some of my favorite pictures from the last five homecomings...


 This moment gives me goosebumps every time I see it...



 Rease & Dave: Our very first reunion!  He later surprised their kiddos at home!
Christian missed her Daddy almost as much as Mommy did. 
 Trina peaks around to see her cheering section!
 That's one happy little Sam!
 Amy & Scott: First deployment...CHECK!!
 Trina is our only mommy in the company...Leaving your babies for war takes a different kind of strong.
I am actively peer pressuring Jason to propose to Alicia.  She's a keeper.
 Drew first lays eyes on Connor, 4.
 The little kids reunions are my favorite!!
 Connor's had a busy year taking care of Mommy and his twin little sisters, Molly and Kate, 2.
 There's a whole lot of love to go around!
A big Brackman embrace.
My very favorite picture, our First Sargent and his 15 year old son.  This picture says everything.

Friday, February 25, 2011

President's Weekend

Last weekend, Emmy, Molly, Darla and I were the lucky recipients of some good old fashioned lovin' from Mom and Dad!  We picked them up from the Nashville airport on Saturday afternoon and went directly to Five Guys for some grub.  Only the best for my parents!  Turns out, Five Guys is Emmy's FAVORITE restaurant!  I'm not sure if it was her hot dog, the Michael Jackson music playing over head, or having Mimi and Papa's undivided attention, perhaps it was a combination, but Emmy was so excited she just couldn't hide it.  My girl danced for the duration of dinner.

On Sunday, we went to church, then filled up on a giant brunch before loading up the car and driving to Indy.  Dad took the wheel, Mom entertained Emmy in the backseat, Emmy entertained Mom in the backseat, the dogs snuggled up to one of the many warm bodies in the car, and I took a load off for 5 hours!  It only got better with my chocolate milkshake from our pit stop.  If only I could have Mom and Dad join me on every road trip, I'd be the ultimate Zen traveler.

Once we arrived in Indy, it was game on.  Mom and Dad got down on the floor and played with all of their grandbabies for two solid days.  Certainly not for the faint of heart.  Our time went by in a flash, as it always does.  I despise the fact that we live thousands of miles away from one another; I think I need to step up the pressure when I encourage them to move near us!

Human alarm clocks, Emmy and Clairey.

Papa carries the weight of that world on his shoulders.

Emmy and Clairey take tow-mater for a spin!

Reading books, all of the kids' very favorite past time.

Emmy roped Mom into reading to her, too.

Dance Party!!!


My girl stops for no one.

Movie time!  This was about one minute before Emmy overstayed her welcome on the couch.

Cars...Andy's FAVORITE!

"Happy Birthday You," Papa!

Mimi, Papa and all of their grandbabies!



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