Saturday, January 25, 2014

4 months & 2 years!

With Emmy's recent birthday, I couldn't help but reflect on how drastically life has changed over the last 4 years.  I am absolutely in awe of all four of our precious blessings, and feel so honored that God made me their mama.  I'm not going to lie, though, this time has been hard.  Really, really hard.  It's crazy how you can feel so overwhelmed while also savoring the moment.  I know there is going to be a time when I miss the crazy, and I try really hard to focus on that.  With practice, I have become pretty efficient at completing those tasks of the highest priority (pumping, meal prep, dishes, bathtime, etc.)  I run through my day (and night) as if I am completing a complicated obstacle course, and I am as clumsy as they come...Every task requires forethought, and each step I have learned the hard way, which has just burned it into my memory for the next time.  I used to laugh that God was going to reveal what I'm made of, and now I consider myself to be living proof that He provides.  He ALWAYS provides exactly what is needed, whether it be patience, an extra big pumping, or a solution to a problem.  How did I ever live without Him?

I am overjoyed to say that all of our babies are absolutely thriving, as per our patient pediatrician!  Last week was our joint 4 month and 2 year well check-ups for Hannah, James and Julia!  I very well might've shaved years off my life pulling a stunt like that all by myself, between keeping everyone reasonably content and cooperative and out of the garbage and three sets of immunizations, I was spent by 11 o'clock in the morning.

James and Julia's little personalities are emerging!  They are HAPPY little ones, sharing giggles, squawks and smiles liberally.  They love to be cuddled and sang to, and James has some serious tickle spots on his jaw line.  Julia is always quick to return a smile when smiled at.  They have become very grabby and hold on for dear life to whatever might be in their reach-hair, toys, eachother's hands.  It's almost like they give hugs when they're being held, they are known to wrap their sweet arms around my neck.  They are trying hard to "help" hold their bottles at feeding times.



They are good at holding their heads up now; Jamesy has a little more stamina than Julia, but they are both doing a fantastic job.  I am pretty embarrassed to admit that they have both developed some flat spots on the back of their heads from laying down.  It's kind of a one-two punch, given that all I want to do is hold and cuddle our babies, but  I can't and keep the rest of our family and home afloat.  They are so happy and content and such wonderful sleepers that I have let them lay down more than I ever did with the girls.  The good news, is that it's purely cosmetic and that their little heads can round out on their own in the next couple of months with plenty of time upright and rotating how they sleep.  So, along with safety and nourishment, my top priority is keeping the babies upright (in their jumperoos, bumbo seats, propping them up on the couch or bed, wearing them, etc.) whenever they are awake.  It might be optimistic thinking, but I think I've already noticed a difference...Praying that we can avoid the helmets, but very grateful that we have options if it comes down to that.

The twins are eating well, typically six feedings a day.  The first one being their largest with about six ounces and the others with four to five ounces.  I am doing my very best to keep up with their milk demands, but a pumping injury and a growth spurt have tested me big time.  I am grateful for our robust freezer stash to make up the difference until I can get my supply up to snuff.  Pumping has become a very time-consuming task, and I would give anything to be able to nurse the babies (both for the convenience factor and the precious cuddle time,) but in the handful of times I've tried recently, it's evident that we have a long way to go (Jules was far more focused than James) and I just don't have the time in my day to commit to it while also keeping up with the other kids.  So for now, I will carry on with the pumping since I am totally committed to providing their milk.  I am more stubborn than a pit bull when it comes to certain things.

Their sleep routine is just beginning to take shape.  They began sleeping through the night on December 13th (which was SO APPRECIATED through the holidays so that I could get stuff done after hours!)  They went down around 9 and would get up around 7!  AMAZING!  We transitioned them to their separate cribs in the nursery on December 31st.  We've had a little bit of a sleep set back just after New Years, with their 4 month growth spurt.  That's when I dipped into the freezer stash, and since they've been enjoying some heartier meals, James is back to sleeping all night and Jules is down to one meal a night, usually in the 4 o'clock hour (after going down at 8PM.)  They are beginning to fall into the 1-2-3 hour nap pattern (awake for one hour, nap, awake for two hours, nap, and then awake for three hours and down for the night.)  They sleep exceptionally well in their caseats on school days when I have a bunch of errands to run.  It is such a blessing to be able to have that whole time out tackling my to-do list so that I can avoid taking all four kids to the store.

JULIA
11 pounds 4.5 ounces (1%ile-no longer on the preemie chart!)
23.5 inches tall (7%ile also off the preemie chart!)
I'll have to go back and find the measurement for her head circumference...




JAMES
15 pounds 5.5 ounces (38%ile)
24.75 inches tall (21%ile)
41.2cm head circumference (24%ile)


Getting coiffed by Sis.





HANNAH
26.2 pounds (44%ile)
35 inches tall (88%ile)



As for our dear Hannah, she is turning into a little lady right before our eyes.  Her vocabulary has exploded in the last two weeks and she has been communicating to us in sentences!  "Hannah like trains" or "Where Emmy go?" she is finally a contributor to the incessant dialogue throughout our day.  Every time I turn around she is trying out a new word, it's hard to recall them all!  One of my favorite phrases is "O'tay, Mommy."  Music to my ears!!  Nick and I get a kick out of her pronunciation of her favorite snack, Pirates Booty; it sounds like "hairy poopy."  I mourn the day she says it properly.

Speaking of snacks, it's Hannah's favorite mealtime of the day (next to breakfast.)  If given the choice, she would exist only on pancakes, pirates booty, bananas, Campbells' chicken noodle soup, almond milk, ice cream, cheese (which she eats sparingly because of adverse GI effects,) apple sauce, chocolate, cheerios, hummus (better known as "hummy"), peanut butter, bean and cheese quesadillas and condiments such as jam and ketchup. 

When it comes to sleep, she rocks my world.  Hannah usually wakes up around 7 or 730 (sometimes 8 if we had a particularly long day before) and goes down for a 2.5-3 hour nap at 1230 or 1.  She then goes back down for sleep at 730(ish).  

Hannah is increasingly interested in the potty, I have made this assumption based on the fact that she likes to take her diaper off as soon as it's soiled.  We've had more than a few wake-ups at naptime because a Sissy, clad only in her birthday suit, has relieved herself in her crib.  She is no longer interested in her behemoth sleep sack, but she will agree to footie jammies, which seem to make the difference.  By the grace of God, she is still in her crib, but Nick and I are bracing ourselves for the day that she attempts to climb out.  We are fearful that it might be soon. For now, we cherish the fact that she is one of our offspring that sleeps consistently at naptime and at night!

She is still obsessed with her baboos, and her collection has exploded!  She likes to take care of them, feed them and push them around in the stroller.  She has become an avid "reader" and very carefully inspects every page of the books we read.  She likes to bring books into her crib at naptime to "read" before she goes to sleep.  She has a new fascination with trains, particularly Thomas the train, of whom she calls "Tommy."  Caillou has a rival in our house.  She loves duplo legos and packing things in bags and carrying them around.  She also LOVES her toothbrush...It looks like an over-sized crayola crayon and it buzzes while she brushes her teeth.  She makes multiple trips a day to the kids' bathroom to retrieve her toothbrush and toothpaste.  She is also very much into animals and the noises they make.  She tells me that "ephaphants" (elephants) are her favorite, but I believe that puppy dogs are a close second.  

To Hannah, Emmy walks on water, until she doesn't.  They adore one another but know exactly what buttons to press to get a rise out of the other one.  I am going to have to brush up on my refereeing because I suspect my job is going to involve a lot of that once the twins enter the play scene.  Hannah doesn't take nonsense from anyone and is very quick to dig her heels in.  But she's also quick to say she's sorry, which makes me feel as though we must be doing something right.  Hannah is very self confident, innovative, independent-thinking, pretty dramatic, and yet warm, loving and cuddly, especially when she's in her comfort zone.  Her favorite song to dance to is "Roar" by Katy Perry and her favorite song to sing (with hand motions) is "Itsy Bitsy Spider" and without hand motions is "Frosty the Snowman" (Frosy Nowman in Hannah speak.)  


Love them!

Hannah is 2!

Hannah's birthday celebration was so special for so many reasons!  She has become such a big girl, and we've been noticing especially in the last few weeks an explosion of words and a fantastic ability to follow directions!  She's becoming a kid!  She really had no idea what a birthday is all about, but Emmy sure does and was eager to make the day extra special in so many sweet and hilarious ways!  Our Emmy had been counting down to Hannah's birthday for days...On Friday, we went to Target and Emmy picked out two small gifts for Sissy and promptly wrapped them as soon as Sissy was tucked away in her crib for quiet time that day.  She spent the next couple of days carting her gifts around to various hiding spots so that an completely unsuspecting Sissy wouldn't find them.  She spent Saturday morning (before Sissy woke up) making her not one, but FIVE birthday cards!  She planned her outfit (a green dress with white polka dots and a purple beaded necklace) and laid it out the night before.  She was so overcome with anticipation for Hannah's special day that she woke up three times the night before (that NEVER happens!) a bright eyed Emmy came running downstairs at 630 on the big day with her gifts.  Of which she place on Hannah's trampoline, just as she'd planned to do the night before.  It was TORTURE for Emmy to wait the extra hour for Sissy to wake up (who actually woke up because Emmy opened her bedroom door to check and see if her eyes were open...)  Emmy led the charge with gift opening, just as soon as Sissy came down stairs.  We had a big breakfast full of all Hannah's favorites..."hot dogs," swedish pancakes, eggs and mandarin orange slices, along with a celebratory bottle of Martinelli's sparkling apple cider.  Sissy was so excited to "cheers" all of us with her fancy drink over and over again. :)  We went to church, and when we picked the girls up from their respective areas, Emmy, very seriously, dropped to her knees, pulled off her fleece, unzipped her backpack to retrieved her "Happy Birthday" crown and blower party favor.  She placed the crown on her head (still very seriously,) put the blower in her mouth, took my hand and help walking.  I couldn't stop laughing over how devoted she was to celebrating Sissy's big day. :)  Warmed the cockles of my heart.

After an abbreviated quiet time, we loaded the troops up in the car and headed down to Nashville for a surprise birthday adventure!  We made it to the Build-A-Bear factory with 30 minutes until closing!  Luckily, that's all the time we needed.  We took our time exiting the Opry Mills mall before we stumbled upon their Merry-Go-Round, which both Emmy and Sissy were begging to ride...In the spirit of Hannah's "yes" day (opting for responding favorably to most of her requests-within reason,)  Daddy took both girls for a whirl.  They loved it, especially Hannah, who continually asked for another go around throughout our very high-brow meal at Burger King in the food court.  We rushed home afterward so that we could sing "Happy Birthday" enjoy Sissy's hand-selected cupcakes!

Hannah's awake!!  The moment we've all been waiting for!  Especially Emmy!

Opening presents as soon as we got downstairs.

A fancy new birthday outfit and cozy "ephaphant" baboo from Mimi and Papa!

One of Emmy's gifts, that was, thankfully, a big surprise for Hannah; largely due to her gift-hiding strategy, I'm sure.

A sweet sheep baboo that says a goodnight prayer from Grammy and Poppy.

An Army baboo that even has our last name on the jacket from Grammy and Poppy!

Train duplos to feed Hannah's train obsession!

Breakfast time!  Hannah's favorite meal of the day!

Lunch time treat...juice in a train sippy, what could be better?!

Hannah making her selection at the Build-A-Bear factory, she hardly knew what to do with herself!  Emmy, on the other hand, had her pink princess bear and outfit (including shoes) picked out within the first 5 minutes of being there.

So many to choose from!

Hannah really actually preferred the display puppy dog...But, reluctantly went along with the process...


...Until she wanted nothing to do wit her new puppy dog...

Emmy waiting patiently for her pink princess bear.

Hannah can't shake the display baboo...

She can tell which one is the display even after Nick attempted to masterfully "switch" it.  They were identical, but she has a sixth sense about baboos.


Bathtime!



A little personal grooming.




If only I'd clicked over to the video camera quickly enough, Hannah was doing a little boot-scoot-and-boogie with the cowboy hat.


She desperately wanted a "car" bed for her puppy dog to sleep in.  She staged a protest in the middle of the aisle. We negotiated a little backpack for her to carry her baboo in.













Juju's awake!


Singing "Happy Birthday!"





Saturday, January 11, 2014

Christmas 2013

Juju entranced by the christmas lights.


The great ice storm of 2013! :-P





Bonding over football! I've found a task that is compatible with football watching!  Feeding and holding babies!


Henry is our elf on a shelf.  Emmy was having trouble listening one day and made the naughty choice of touching him.  Well, Henry immediately became gravely ill, and departed for the north pole as soon as she turned the other way.  He returned the next morning but spent the day nursing himself back to health in Barbie's room.  Last time that choice was made!


We got a gingerbread Christmas village kit at Target.  Lucky for us there were unbroken walls to construct two of the five buildings!  Emmy worked hard to decorate them, and then promptly ate one of them for dessert (while I was detained with cleaning the dishes. :-P)


Making Christmas cookies!!  All of the kiddos got in on the fun this year!  We had so much fun!




Shopping for our adopted "Christmas kid" Ashanti at Target!  The girls got REALLY into it!  Emmy helped pick out her outfit (I signed off on it-Emmy has fashion sense when it comes to color coordination, but she's not afraid of patterns!)  Hannah INSISTED on holding everything.  It was pretty funny. :-P BTW, I ADORE the new cart at Target (that is a singular form of the word, I do believe there is just one at our local store.) They are nearly impossible to come by, but I feel as though it was created for my family!



We hosted the church group Christmas party again this year!  40 adults and kiddos was a new record for us! :)  We had so much fun!  Especially the part where we wrapped up all of the gifts for Ashanti...






Emmy wrote her letter for Santa!


All dressed up to go see Santa at the Opryland Hotel!


Our girls!



Hannah is obsessed with James and Jules is Emmy's little pet...It's pretty funny. :)  Everyone has a buddy!


Different kind of road march for Daddy!


Hannah was reaching for her beloved baboo. :-P


"Woo! Woooooo!"  Hands down, Hannah's very favorite part of the day!






I've got a monkey on my back!


On the 23rd, we went to Toys R Us and divided up into two teams, Mommy, Hannah and James and Daddy, Emmy and Juju.  We let the kids pick out small gifts for eachother, and it was SO MUCH FUN!!  We played it up by staying away from eachother (and being really dramatic if the other team was closing in on us!) to make sure the gifts were a surprise!  This is only going to get more fun as the kiddos get older!


We got back into our teams to wrap the presents!  Team Daddy!


Hannah guarding the door for Team Mommy!


Hannah trying to cheat!


Emmy did a wonderful job wrapping the gifts for Hannah and James!


Sissy put herself on tape duty.

The Saturday before Christmas, we went on a tour de Clarksville to surprise some of the people that matter the most to us with some Christmas cookies!  The kids were so excited!


Who needs a white Christmas when you can have a tornado warning?


My closet has never been more full!


Christmas Eve!  I totally spaced out and thought there was a church service, but instead our church had celebrated the Sunday before...It made for a much less rushed celebration. We had a fancy dinner in very casual clothes (jammies from the night before!)  Here, Emmy took it on herself to make a plate of cookies for Santa and carrot for Rudolph while I was embroiled in baby bath time.


Santa was here!!  He arrived a little after 1 when Mommy and Daddy finished wrapping!


SO excited!  A Cinderella princess dress from Grammy and Poppy!  This has worked it's way into her everyday wear!


Hannah's big gift!  A trampoline!  It has been a hit with every child that has been in our home!



Her beloved Caillou!

Juju with her gift from James and Hannah!



Jamesy boy in his new bumbo!


Gang's all here!



Emmy's big gift from Santa!  She'd asked him for this when she chatted with him at 
the Opryland Hotel!



This is how Sissy colors...Sprawled out on the floor.



Happy girl!


Sleepy boy!  Cuddled up with his new Simba toy from Emmy and Juju.



Our friend and babysitter, Ms. Ericka sent me a text when she was out shopping one day with a picture of this doll...I couldn't resist! 


So much excitement wears a baby out!


Later Christmas Day: "The Sacksteders are coming! The Sacksteders are coming!!!"


Nick's make-shift command station.


The kids table!


These two are absolutely attached at the hip.



They had a band!


Clairey led the trio into the room and announced to JP that he was their audience.  Nick really got into it. (I stole this from Kris' camera!)


"ought coco" is Sissy's favorite!


Nick makes fun of me for our stroller collection but we were able to seat 5/7 kiddos at our Opryland excursion to go see the Christmas lights!


The Sacksteders! (Courtesy of Kris!)


Us! (Kris, again!)


Us again! (Kris took this one too!)


I hear angels singing!  A picture with everyone looking!!!  Hallejuah!!


Thank you, Kris!








We noticed the girls were outside having a little gab-sesh one morning.


Movie for quiet time!


Sweet Emmy was worn out!



After years of trying, the big kids slept peacefully together!  The key? Books on CD!  They made sure to remind eachother to be quiet so that they could heard the story, and then fell asleep in the process!  Another brilliant idea by my Kris!


Making Jesus' birthday cake!


Celebrating Jesus' birthday at the Andrjeski's house!


Jace and Hailey!




Lauren!


Jakey Wy Wy (in Hannah speak) and Emmy girl!



They're first date! Jace and Hannah!


Collective effort decorating Jesus' cake!


Kris and little miss Maisy Jane!


Jakey goes in for the good stuff, which thoroughly ticks Emmy off.



Hands on Daddies!  Love them!


Children flock to Kris. :)


Brings new meaning to "hot mess."


Lucky for us, Snowmageddon turned into a light dusting.  Emmy's ensemble was lacking!

Kris took a bunch of great pictures...




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