Saturday, January 5, 2013

California Christmas Vacation

After years of celebrating the holidays separately, we decided that a good, old-fashioned, giant family Christmas was in order.  Since, aside from Kris and JP's family, we are the only ones that live away from the left coast, we knew it was up to us to travel back to our homeland.  The decision was only confirmed by a willing pet sitter, an airport parking Groupon deal, and unseasonably low airfare.  I have a strange belief that God reveals His plans to me through plane ticket prices. With that kind of divine intervention it would be sinful not to follow through.

We needed the couple of months lead time to prepare to move Christmas to California.  There were all sorts of logistical considerations ranging from child sleeping arrangements to the holiday gathering itinerary to gift transportation.  The Sacksteder's Elf, Jingle, even made the trip, complete with miniature scarf and suitcase.  No Christmas detail was overlooked.

Of course the next obstacle was actually getting to California.  Nick was on Emmy duty (I never thought I'd say this, but he lucked out with that gig) and I assumed Hannah duty.  Overall, Nick gave Emmy a B- and I graded Hannah's travel performance at a C. All things considered, they did pretty well.  We had a lot working against us, including a gnarly jet stream that significantly bumped up our in-flight travel time.  It could have been worse, though, I could have been my sister who traveled solo with her three children.  She reconfirmed her hero status in my book.  Our planes pulled into their respective gates within minutes of each other, which enabled us to congregate in the rental car building before caravan-ing back to Danville.
My parents had so kindly emptied rooms  worth of stuff into a storage unit to make room for the influx of people.  Pretty incredible how many of us could fit!  We tucked the three eldest grandbabies into their air mattresses in my parents' office that first night without any hint of back-up plan should the arrangement fail.  By the grace of God, for the first time ever, they went to sleep easily and remained in their beds until they all promptly woke up at 345 AM Pacific Standard Time.  To their credit, it was 545 and 645, Mountain and Eastern time.  I had been up throughout the night with Hannah when I heard little footsteps emerge from their neighboring room; which must have belonged to Emmy who marched into the downstairs bedroom to notify Kris (and Jacob) that they were all awake.  I guess the early wake-up was the price to be paid for smooth bedtime...

For the next few days, until JP arrived, we looked a lot like Nick's sister wives.  We turned quite a few heads as Kris and I followed him into Target, each one of us was either pushing a basket filled with children of carrying one on our person.  We got some good laughs out of our predicament, especially watching Nick chase after Emmy and Claire as they insisted on trying on a wide variety of glittery mary janes in the children's shoe department.

On Wednesday, we were overjoyed to host Emmy's family birthday party at none other than Chuck E. Cheese's!  It was the most fantastic party-hosting experience; my work was limited to completing the online reservation form and selecting a pre-made cupcake arrangement from Safeway and Emmy was TICKLED to eat pizza and play games with her loved ones.  We might have to do this every year, as I doubt it would ever get old!  Seeing the beads of sweat running down the faces of my husband, brother and brother-in-laws while competing at a basketball arcade game was all I needed to know that Chuck E. Cheese appeals to all ages. :-P

Thursday evening was our giant playdate at Grammy and Poppy's house!  Grammy just raised the bar for cool toys with a new vehicle made especially for little people!  My Emmy took back-to-back turns as she drove up and down Via Romero.  Clairey was, of course, her sidekick.  True to independent Clairey form, she was none to interested in assistance when she climbed behind the wheel.  Ben, rebuffed, explained how she brushed his hand away as he attempted to steady the steering wheel.  Large and in charge, our Clairey is!  We finally reunited with our favorite Landgrafs, who have temporarily relocated to the bay (which was, to us, one of our favorite Christmas gifts!)  Even though the kiddos hadn't seen one another in just about two years, it was as if no time had passed; and the new additions got along swimmingly!  After night fell and the kid-sized jeep was secured in it's own parking spot in the garage, we all warmed up over hot cider and sandwiches while the kids explored all of Grammy's exciting Christmas decor.  They finished up with some gingerbread cookie decorating!  So fun!

Kris and I were able to sneak out the following night to meet up with Annie and Jess for a leisurely dinner and a very, very, very long overdue catch-up sesh.  Emmy had a sleepover with Grammy and Poppy, and loved every second they spent cuddling on the couch watching Peter Pan.  Nick was able to sneak out to soak up some friend time, too!  

Kris and I basked in our ability to leave our sleeping babies in their grandparents' care so that we could finish up our Christmas shopping.  We didn't take a moment for granted as we wrapped up our shopping lists at all the incredible shopping venues the east bay has to offer.  It's amazing how efficient two can be without ten extra, grabby hands.

We started the holiday festivities on Sunday with a Odell family bash...We were ALL accounted for (except for my cousin, Nicole's fiance, who was scheduled to work at Disneyland over the holiday.)  I can't even guess how many years it's been since we were all in the same place.  Too many.  It was so wonderful to catch-up, although there is never enough time to cover it all.  There is something to be said, though, for being with family, and picking right back up where you left off...So much love!

Monday was Christmas Eve!  After getting gussied up, we joined Grammy and Poppy for the children's church service at CPC (the church where Nick and I were married,) which was complete with coloring books and a puppet show!  They have kids figured out!  Emmy was absolutely entranced by the music and Hannah insisted the Grammy and Poppy carry her around to inspect every square inch of the joint... :-P  We sped home for a giant Christmas Eve feast with the rest of our family! It was so much fun to introduce the kiddos to their great aunts, uncles and second cousins!  They adored all of the attention.  Under the direction of Auntie Eliana, Clairey initiated the singing of Christmas carols while Emmy played the drums on Mimi's glass coffee table.  After our goodbyes, leaving out cookies and carrots, and dressing in our matching Christmas jammies, we settled in for a long (?) winter's night.

 

The night was less long for some of us.  Hannah woke up in the four o'clock hour, leaving me peeved that my siblings no longer preferred early Christmas morning wake-ups.  A couple of hours later, the others started trickling into the family room and Christmas was underway!  The demolition of Christmas wrapping was fast and furious as the little ones jumped from gift to gift.  They were as excited as all get out, while also protecting their new loot from eachother.  Just when things started heating up between Emmy and Clairey over Clairey's new scooter, it was time for us to depart for round two with the Horns!  Everything about the day was gluttony, the gifts, the company, the food!  We are so blessed in so many ways!

The following night, we had another fantastic childless excursion with our incredible friends, the Weis', the Landgrafs, the Laudins, and Arge!  What I would give to construct a neighborhood in which we all could live and have communal dinners each night.  With Kris fighting off the flu, I was left in charge of Nick and JP; I warned them as we drove to the Weis' that my late-night stamina paled in comparison to theirs.  But I surprised myself (and them), and had to force myself to leave the party just before 1.  I can't wait until our next rendez-vous, whenever and wherever it might be!

With all of our big gatherings under our belt, we were left to pack up the obscene amount of new things making the return flight with us.  I seriously underestimated the load, and that it would take us most of the last day we were in California to gather it and pack it!  Lucky for me my husband brought his thinking cap, and we managed to cram it all into three suitcases, two carry-ons and an extra box.  We were so grateful for the luggage benefits extended to active duty military personnel by the airlines because it helped. A lot.

We said our final farewells before boarding our flight home.  Come to find out, Delta flights only have four oxygen masks on one side of their planes, which happened to be the opposite of what I had pre-selected when we purchased the tickets.  Because I lost at "noses," Hannah and I were banished to a middle seat six rows in front of Nick and Emmy (on the opposite side of the plane, of course).  Hannah protested our new seat by throwing her bottle, pulling our neighbor's hair and screaming for the better part of taxi, take-off and the initial ascent.  I went to my happy place and assured myself that we would not be traveling by air for the foreseeable future.  Fortunately, the trip was worth the travel days on either side of it...This Christmas ranked supreme!

Emmy had high hopes of reliving the pool play from this summer. It was a little disappointing.

Sissy charming one of Grammy's toys!
Blissfully napping with my Clairey and my Emmy.
Sweet babies.

Totally loving the new ride.

Just before I nearly got run over.
Grammy nailed it!!
Dear Drew Landgraf inspects the tree!
My new favorite picture with Sissy.  This is the smile she offers every time the camera comes out. :-D

The kids take over the living room.
Drew Landgraf!
Hannah & Poppy!

Will Landgraf is ready for the cookies!!

Jen so thoughtfully snapped this one for us!
:)
Jacob giving the refrigerator door a once-over.
That boy melts my heart each time he flashes that smile at me.
Hannah made the rounds!

Eagerly awaiting the gingerbread cookies!  Emmy stripped down to her skivvies to avoid dirtying her new dress.  All of the others followed suit.







Making a toast before decorating Mimi and Papa's Christmas tree!
Egg Nog will now forever be known as "Christmas milk."




The kids camped out to watch Papa's train.  They even outfitted it with Princess passengers when Papa wasn't looking.
My cousins Pat and Eileen & Pat's beautiful wife, Mindy.
Uncle Kevin, Chris and their sweet granddaughter Shannon.
Mom steals a kiss from Jamie. :-P
My cousins Ashley and Mick, and Uncle Kent.
Papa, Uncle Kevin and my girls :)


Emmy was SO EXCITED to reunite with Auntie Kerry!
Thank goodness for timers and tripods! Back Left: Andy, JP, Dad, Scott, Bryce, Pat, Mick, Uncle Kevin, Jamie, Uncle Kent. Middle Left: Nick, Hannah, Mom, Clairey, Auntie Kerry, Emmy, Chris, Auntie Laurie, Eileen, Shannon, Mindy & Clare. Bottom Left: Nicole, Ashley, Jacob, Kris & Yours Truly.

It's not an Odell family Christmas without Daddy Cookie Cake & Singing Happy Birthday to Jesus!


Christmas Eve Service




Auntie Eliana is the Pied Piper and the most kind-hearted sister-in-law a girl could ask for.  So blessed.
It's the Emmy & Clairey show!

Cookies for Santa & carrots for the reindeer!

The gifts circled the room!


My wake-up buddy, Hannah.
Emmy joined us a couple of hours later!
Andy made his way to the tree after Emmy's wake-up call...
..followed by Clairey. :)  She gets up on her own time. :)


A family who dresses alike, stays together?

A whole lotta love!

Jacob and Uncle Jamie wore matching red, footed jammies.  Which is appropriate, because, upon further examination, it appears that Jamie is Jacob's doppleganger.
Smiles!!!!!

We toyed with the idea of reenacting a pose from years past where we lay under the tree like presents.
Hannah's new beloved "LOL" Elmo!
Joy!


Still smiling!
Grandpa Jack and his great grandbabies!  Lovely!!


My Emmy was so tuckered out by the fun, this is where Nick found her when he got out of the shower.  Still wearing her baby doll ergo with the bear that she asked every Santa's helper for.
Emmy and Poppy jammin' to God Bless America.
Parents' Night Out!!
I stole these photos from Kerrie!
Ben, Eliana, Arge, JP (needed to hold onto someone since Kris was home sick with the flu), yours truly, my Nick, Jay, Jen & Kerrie!


Monday, December 24, 2012

Christmas Letter 2012

December 2012


To our dear friends and family,


We hope that this message finds you well this Christmas season.  We are immersed in the wonderment that comes this time of year; thanks to our babies… 


Our sweet, patient, yet determined little Hannah is nearly one.  She fills her time crawling, making new and inventive noises and showcasing her four teeth with an all-encompassing smile. I can count the number of grown adults who have confided in me that Hannah “just understands them” on my hands and feet.  Apparently there is an old soul tucked into her tiny little body.


Big sis, Emmy, has embraced her role completely.  She can get Hannah to laugh just by looking at her sideways and is quick to “mommy” her, even when her bossy direction is completely unwarranted (is that how she sees me?)  Emmy is self-assured, fun-loving, “helpful,” unrelenting, affectionate and has a gentle, tenderhearted nature; I am so grateful to have her as my sidekick (except when we pass the impulse buys on shopping excursions.)  On the eve of her third birthday, Emmy’s favorite things include: “school” (Mom’s Day Out), cooking with mommy, kissing sissy, going to the park with daddy, caring for her baby dolls, “dancing shows”, Fancy Nancy books, dress-up, and playing with her friends.  All girl, that one.


Nick has been granted a company command in the 160th Special Operations Aviation Regiment, beginning next summer.  We have opted to stay in the military for three more years so that he may have this opportunity, for which he is so honored to have been considered and selected.  He is currently working at an administrative job, taking a handful of domestic work trips in addition to a six week deployment to Afghanistan in August. Down time is minimal, but he spends it loving on us girls, and testing his leadership capacity  (and patience) by shepherding elementary school children’s hearts at church Sunday mornings.


It’s hard to detail my day-to-day life as a stay at home mom, but my responsibilities might be more easily noted if I just neglected to do them.  Managing our Horn Household Cent-Com, is a 24 hour job, and I’m blessed to do it.  Things got real this spring when we decided to upgrade our home from Nick’s former bachelor pad.  I could have starred in my own HGTV real estate drama, my co-stars being my two year old and four month old (and two high maintenance, yappy dogs), with the plot line including a last-minute deployment.  Good times.  The end justified the means , though, now that we live in our dream home.  We are blessed beyond measure. 


Wishing you all a happy and healthy holiday season!

With Love,

Nick, Ali, Emmy, Hannah, Molly & Darla Horn


Monday, December 10, 2012

Decking our New Halls

We had our Christmas decorations up and the holiday music playing before our Thanksgiving leftovers were completed... Considering we never really stopped talking about Christmas since we celebrated it last year, the excitement is positively palpable in our home.

Last Saturday, Nick begrudgingly put aside his plans to calibrate the new scope on his new hunting rifle to help me "winterize" the backyard.  I knew I needed to make it up to him and the kiddos, so we spent the latter part of the day eating out at Five Guys and watching the downtown Clarksville Christmas parade and strolling past the Riverfront light display....


Emmy is music-obsessed, so the all high school marching band left quite the impression...

 ...but not as much as seeing Santa and Mrs. Claus ride in the sleigh float.

We kept the girls up late so they could see the lights at Riverfront park. :)



I realized that Nick and I don't have any recent pictures of just the two of us.  So what do I do?  Ask Emmy to take a picture of us from her stroller...She took a bunch of photos, this the only one where you can see both of our upper bodies.
This past Friday night, we stopped off at Starbucks for some hot cocoa and then went for a drive to a home that boasted a light show set to music.
The 35-minute drive time to the light show swelled substantially when Emmy announced she needed to go potty.  As you can see, she wouldn't be rushed.
We made it!  It's incredible what people create.
 Daddy and his dinner dates at Chuy's in Nashville.  We braved a sit-down restaurant for the first time in who-knows-how-long.  It was fast-paced, but, luckily, there were no melt-downs!

Millin' around the Opryland hotel.  Their Christmas decor is world-class, and could get even the grinchy-est person in the Christmas spirit.



Unfortunately, we missed Santa by seconds the first time we went to the Opryland Hotel on Thursday night.  He was literally walking out of the room as we walked in.  Emmy was crushed.  So, we promised her that we'd come back...We made good on our promise on Saturday afternoon.  Pretty much everyone had the same intentions as us, which led to a fantastic traffic jam entering into the area surrounding the hotel.  I chose to view it as a rite of passage...:-P  Emmy savored her time with Santa, and spent a whole minute spilling her thoughts.  I would give anything to know what all she told him; the only thing I could get out of her was that she told Santa she wanted to go ride on the miniature train that was in the neighboring arena. 

Sunday, December 9, 2012

11 months

Emmy-isms
"That's so special for me." (Said in protest when we are taking away something she's not supposed to be playing with.)








I feel like I just posted about Hannah, but I guess that's fitting, because, literally, each time I turn around, she's into something else.  Sissy is a crawling fool now.  She's prone to come find me whenever I might leave the room. :)  She's pulling up on everything in her path.  I even saw her "pull up" on something that was lying on the floor, which led to a "pike" position with her tush in the air.  She is a liberated baby with this new-found mobility.




I believe Emmy has met her match.  Hannah is incredibly patient, until you hit her threshold, which Emmy successfully pushes her to regularly.  If Hannah is playing with a toy, Emmy reliably comes and takes it away (often times saying "You'll NEVER get it back" with an evil-sounding cackle,) Hannah will scream and look at me as if to say, "Did you see that??  Aren't you going to do something about it??"

Hannah loves connect with people, particularly with her emphatic wave. She uses a simultaneous two hand wave to indicate that she is "all done" (whether or not she is actually "all done.")  Her regular sounds are "dadada," "mamama," "vavava," "doh!"  She always lights up when she gets a response to her sounds. :)

Hannah likes to laugh, and if you laugh with her, she'll laugh harder.  She loves to play tug-o-war with her water sippy with Emmy, which always produces a quality case of the giggles.

Sleep is still a work in progress...I am weaning her from nursing (well actually she has been weaning herself during the day for awhile now, I'm just now taking the hint.)  As of a couple of days ago, I stopped pumping during the day and went exclusively to formula bottles, reserving our nursing sessions for her first and last feedings of the day when she is most focused.  It's actually helped with her sleep a bit, as she's slept longer and later than she has in months.  I am so grateful for every additional minute of sleep this new regime affords me.  As for table food, she's feeding herself 75% of the time, which has also been a welcomed development!

Thanksgiving Madness!

We all agree that Thanksgiving 2012 was one of our most special yet... 

I had the wonderful privilege of joining Emmy for a Thanksgiving lunch at Mom's Day Out on the Tuesday before Turkey Day.  She shared her one-of-a-kind artwork with me over some cheesy potatoes, ham and cookies.  I cherish our time together...

Kris and J.P. and their babies drove in on Wednesday, and were welcomed by a reaction from Emmy befitting of lottery jackpot winner.  Within the hour, the kids were squabbling like siblings.  The "polite" period is getting shorter with every visit. 

Seated around our fully extended table, we collectively devoured three pizzas for dinner before retreating to fire up the fire pit.  Andy commented how he'd never seen a campfire before, let alone roasted marshmallows over one.  I feel so blessed to be able to share "firsts" with my beloved niece and nephews in spite of our usual geographic separation.  After bathtime to rid the babies of the sticky remnants of s'mores, we began the torturous bedtime proceedings.  Clairey graciously declined Hannah's room, so that Hannah might sleep in her own crib, in favor of crashing with Andy in the bonus room.  Emmy was in her room (MUCH to her chagrin) and Jacob aptly slept like a baby in the guest room with Kris and J.P.  Emmy felt very left out of the party; which was only compounded by Clairey dictating that Emmy mustn't come out of her room, inside of which they both were standing.  Just after the clock struck 9:30, there was no sign of wakeful children.  The boys hung out by the fire and Kris and I baked some pies, and dove into other Thanksgiving meal preparations.

Thanksgiving was all about the parade, playtime, football and cooking.  I've come to believe that making Thanksgiving dinner is like the final exam in an advanced time management course. The pass or fail grade relies on every dish being the appropriate doneness at the time that everyone is ready to eat.  It took a few years to iron out the kinks, but I would say that this Thanksgiving meal was the best yet.  Our friends/family the Andrjeski's and their precious babies joined in for the fun. We had three tables worth of mouths to feed, which absolutely did my heart good.  With 9 children literally making laps around the kitchen; it was kind of like a fast-moving parade of our most cherished blessings. :-P There was no shortage of excitement during out meal.    :)

Friday, Kris and I decided to make a run for it under the guise that we would partake in Black Friday shopping.  Of course, neither of us claustrophobes would touch that madness with a ten foot pole, so we opted to go to the least densely populated establishments in Clarksville.  As we were leaving the house, Clairey approached Kris and very innocently asked who was going to take care of them in our place.  I'm still laughing every time I think about it.  Nick and JP more than rose to the occasion.  In recounting the details of their park adventure, they mentioned the bizarre looks that they got as they each chased the older kids while toting the littlest ones in Kris and my feminine Ergo baby carriers.  Super Dads, those two.  The uninterrupted sister time was blissful.  Spending three hours just the two of us filled up our buckets.  Not a moment was taken for granted, we made sure of it.

Saturday arrived and the Sacksteders departed.  It was time to change gears.  My good friend, Sara, and her sweet Claire had come to Clarksville for the holiday while her Ranger hubby worked in Florida.  In an effort to re-live our good old days, we had my girlfriends, Molly, Kristy, Lindsey and their families over for a little dinner.  It was so wonderful to be under the same roof once again (even though there are many others who've moved away that we were still missing.)  Times have certainly changed since all of us military wives first came together.  We have been busy multiplying over the years; the nature of our gatherings is a little different now (they start and end earlier and far less wine is consumed,) but I am grateful to say that an awesome friendship remains.

Come Sunday, we were getting a little party-weary, but knowing that our incredible church group would be coming over was excitement enough to rally.  It was such a relaxed night, complete with an entertaining talent show from the kiddos.  We feasted our eyes on a couple of "ABC" renditions, Taylor Swift cover songs and some sweet dance moves.  Nothing like ending a long holiday weekend with some quality belly laughs.

My lunch date at Mom's day Out!


Sissy got to eat lunch with the big kids in the one year old class!



Our "campfire"


Clairey with her inaugural roasted marshmallow.

My girl skipped the marshmallow and graham cracker and went straight for the good stuff.




The beautiful Sacksteder family!

EVERYONE IS LOOKING AT THE CAMERA!!


Hannah ate her weight in mashed potatoes and string beans.  I should also note that she spent about two hours in her high chair while we finished up the final push before serving Thanksgiving dinner.  What a TROOPER!

TWO kids tables!



Hannah's first taste of pumpkin pie...She's been ruined forever!

Viewing the "Elf on the Shelf" movie under the watchful gaze of Henry, our elf.

The first realization that Henry showed up during the movie.
Saturday night! (I stole these photos from Sara. I am KICKING myself that I didn't take any! UGG!)  Kristy, Luke, Molly, Willa & Mr. Conlin


Mrs. Conlin cuddling Hannah and dear Claire cruising.


My Nick, Claire and Mr. Henderson.


Sunday night!  We found that the very quickest way to evacuate a room full of children is announce that ice cream is on.


The big kids helped the little kids put on a highly entertaining show! :)

Dancing to "Call Me Maybe"


Hannah doing what she does best....Spreading the love. :)

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